Like Vapor: The Medicine of Ecclesiastes
In 2002, The Flaming Lips released the song “Do You Realize??”, a catchy yet heavy track with lyrics such as: Do you realize That happiness makes you cry? Do you realize That everyone you know someday will die? Listening to the song recently, I could hear in it an inherent frustration with the human situation. Good things don't always last, and this causes us to mourn. We want the good things and situations to always stay golden and thriving, yet all our trees will one day wilt under the weight of our mortality. We can’t escape this, and we truly know deep down (no matter how much we want to ignore it) everyone we love someday will die. This is a bleak confession. In that moment I was reminded of Ecclesiastes . Like “Do You Realize?? ”, Ecclesiastes is like a strange friend that gives us a bitter medicine. This medicine is probably needed . I realize increasingly how much time I waste on things that don’t matter: anxiety about tomorrow, fixating on a past I cannot change, sc...